6 Suave Dating Behaviours To Show You're Interested....

Have you ever been out on a date with someone you really like, but you
weren't sure exactly how to let your date know that you're interested in
him/her? It can be hard to know how to express yourself around someone
whom you don't know very well yet.
There are many ways to express yourself during a date. You could, for
instance, immediately try to kiss your date and attempt a long session of
"sucking face"... but that isn't wise. While it will certainly convey your
interest, it will probably give your date the wrong impression.
Clearly, then, there are better and worse ways to convey your interest
to a date (with the above example being one of the "worse" options). So
let's look at some more realistic (and better!) ways that you can let your
date know that you're interested.
Here are six simple ways to show your date you're interested:


1. Lean toward your date. Body language plays a huge role in what
you communicate to others. This is especially true on a date, where the
person you're with will be paying a lot of attention to your body language.
So, when you're on a date with someone who interests you, you need to let
him/her know it with your body language. One of the best ways is to lean in
towards your date. Lean in and smile. And when you're leaning in, look at
your date directly in his/her eyes.
2. Smile or laugh a bit when your date says something funny.
While we all know it's important to listen to what your react to things that
your date says that resonate with you. For instance, when your date is
saying something funny, contribute to that part of the conversation. Keep
the conversation rolling when it's on something funny and don't change the
subject.
3. When your date says something intriguing, comment on it.
When your date starts talking about a topic that is in an area of interest of
yours, respond with questions and get more involved in that topic. Say, for
instance you feel really passionate about an upcoming election and your
date says "Well, I really don't think I'm going to bother voting." You can
respond with something like "Wait a second. Why are you considering not
voting?" Then, let the conversation flow from there. Asking questions when a
date says something relating to an area of interest of yours is a great way to
get into a deeper conversation with your date while also showing interest in
what your date is saying.
4. Challenge your date a little bit. Gently challenging your date will
lead to a stimulating conversation. It shows your date you're interested and
engaged in the conversation, and that you're not just a puppet who just
nods and agrees with everything.
5. Keep your body language open at all times. Do not fold your
arms. Do not pick at your nails when you are telling a story or talking. Look
at your date directly in their eyes. Don't look in other directions. If you don't
keep eye contact, your date will not only think you lack interest, but that
you're looking at somebody else.
6. Bring your date "into your space." When you catch yourself
leaning back, lean forward towards your date. When you tell a story, be
animated. Whenever you talk to your date, use hand gestures and engaging
body language. Face your date and hold your in front of you. By doing all of
this, you're inviting your date into your personal area. Your date will notice
this and know you're interested.
So many things about a date are subliminal. You can listen, be a good
conversationalist, talk all day long, and get along easily with people. Doing
all of these things, however, may still not mean that someone with whom
you are out on a date will decipher you're level of interest. It's necessary to
clearly express your interest (so that your date will know you're not just
being courteous).
If you struggle with knowing how to naturally and effectively show a
date that you're interested in him/her, then following these tips will really
help you to break through many of the challenges you've had in the past.
You will also be pleasantly surprised at how much differently those
interesting dates will act towards you!